Showing posts with label god. Show all posts
Showing posts with label god. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

A King Who Didn't Have Finger

A king who didn't believe in God had a slave who, in all circumstances said:

"My king, do not be discouraged because everything God does is perfect, no mistakes..."

One day, they went hunting and a wild animal attacked the king, the slave managed to kill the animal but couldn't prevent his majesty losing a finger.

Furious and without showing gratitude, the King said;

"if God was good, I would not have been attacked and lost one finger!"

The slave replied:

"Despite all these things,I can only tell you that God is good and everything he does is perfect, He is never wrong!"

Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his slave.

Later, he left for another hunt and was captured by savages who made human sacrifices.

In the altar, the savages found out that the king didn't have one finger in place so he was released because he was considered not "complete" to be offered to the gods...
On his return to the palace, he authorized the release of his slave saying;

"My dear,God was really good to me! I was almost killed but for lack of a single finger I was let go!
But I have a question: if God is so good, why did He allow me put you in jail?"

His reply: "My king, if I had gone with you, I would have been sacrificed for you because I have no missing finger."
Remember, everything God does is perfect, He is never wrong...

Often we complain about life, and the negative things that happen to us, forgetting that nothing is random, and that everything has a purpose.


Wednesday, May 23, 2012

'Date with a Woman' - A Heart Touching Story


 After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked? My mother is the type of woman w ho suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.'

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.'

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous.

When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, 'she said, as she got into the car. 'They can't wait to hear about our meeting'. We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.

After we s at down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life.

We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed.

'How was your dinner date?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice.

Much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have time to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me.

I love you, son.'

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU!' and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

How Watching Pornography Changes The Brain

Brain Coral
It is now recognized in neuroscience that the brain is malleable. It changes with our experience and forms pathways and connections that correlate with what we watch, listen to, and learn. From the active engagement in a philosophical discussion in class to the learning of directions in the new city you moved into; even the seemingly passive sitting down to listen to music or watch television results in a constant formation of new connections in the brain that eventually make us who we are as individuals. A huge problem, albeit a silent one, that has reached epidemic proportions is the viewing of pornography, which affects men more so than it does women.

The great majority of articles on the problematic nature of this subject typically speak about it from a psychological and/or social perspective. This article, however, will shed light on the effects of viewing pornography from a neuroscience perspective.

The current model explaining how we learn and remember things at the brain level uses synaptic plasticity as the basis. Synaptic plasticity is the ability of the brain to change the strength in connections between the neurons (brain cells) in response to experience. This involves changing the amount and types of receptors expressed, as well as the amount of neurotransmitters (communication molecules) being released.

A vital neurotransmitter in the brain is dopamine. It has many important roles that it serves in functions such as voluntary movement, motivation, reward, punishment, and learning. Dopamine has been implicated in children with ADHD, cognitive decline due to aging, and depression. Most of the public’s knowledge about dopamine is about famous individuals with Parkinson’s disease such as Muhammad Ali and Michael J Fox, who have dopamine dysfunction pathology.

A vital role for dopamine is in pleasure experience, reward, and learning. Drugs such as cocaine target the dopaminergic system to release great amounts of dopamine which results in experiencing a “high,” often leading to addiction. A number of studies have implicated dopamine in either the anticipation or the direct experience of pleasure. Depending on the brain area, dopamine can be released either prior to or during the moments of heightened pleasure. When released, dopamine strengthens and reinforces the new connections that are being made in the brain while an activity is undertaken.  This in turn acts to encourage the individual to repeat the activity again so they can feel that pleasure once more.

How is this relevant to pornography? As the images are displayed on the screen, an arousal takes place and the dopaminergic system is triggered just like it would be by drugs such as cocaine. The newly formed connections in the brain from watching pornographic images become greatly reinforced by the massive amounts of dopamine being released. Rather than going into short term memory, where these images can be forgotten after the screen is turned off, the dopamine reinforcement ensures they’re moved into the long-term memory stores where they can be stuck in replay mode in the person’s mind. The troublesome fact about this is that the more something is recalled, the more it solidifies it in the brain. Think back to your school days when you studied for an exam – you repeated the statements you needed to memorize over and over until they stuck.

Pornography is fantasy. Different scenes present with different women give the illusion of the watcher having a relationship with a new person every time. These “stars” subject themselves to different demeaning sexual practices by the men in the scenes. The acts in their totality are detestable to most mentally healthy people. However, the design of the act in a pornographic scene is to link one or two normally arousing and familiar elements with others that are not. This is how the viewer acquires new tastes in sexual practice. Electromagnetic waves are emitted from the screen with a fantasy that triggers a chemical reaction in the brain, releasing dopamine. The result is a feeling of a real, yet delusional, state of pleasure and satisfaction. The dopamine reinforces the new connections with newly acquired sexual tastes, and the next thing taking place is the man asking his wife to engage in a sexual fantasy that was downloaded into his subconscious.

The sequence of events in the brain is quite disturbingly simple. Synaptic plasticity works to form new connections as a result of watching pornography, and newly learned memories are stored. Since the experience is an arousing one, dopamine release results in very strong reinforcement of those new connections. Now that the scenes are in long-term memory, two consequences take place: 1) since the very same system stimulated by cocaine is being triggered by pornography, addiction is developed; and 2) the man will often attempt to create his own re-enactments with his wife, which leads to a great disappointment. The re-enactments do not live up to expectations because instead of many different women, it’s now only one. Worse yet, this only one woman doesn’t sound, act, or look the same as the ones downloaded into his mind. Although the first couple of re-enactments might be exciting, soon reality will strike and dopamine will no longer be released because pleasure is no longer derived.

Sadly, that’s not the end of it. After such a disappointment in the actual experience due to the unrealistic fantasy-based expectations, the brain not only refrains from releasing dopamine; it actually dips below baseline levels. It goes into a depression response that results in disappointment, dissatisfaction, and unhappiness in the marriage since the wife is “not up to what he expected”. Despite the efforts by many women to “spice things up” and even subject themselves to the demeaning acts that have been artificially downloaded into their husbands’ brains, the pornography-addicted husbands will only enjoy themselves for a very short while before losing interest. Meanwhile, the wife feels unattractive and emotionally abandoned despite her best efforts, not knowing that she couldn’t compete with the dopamine buzz offered by pornography.

What’s alarming about this information is that the brain acts as a whole entity; its plasticity is global. Change in one area affects other regions. It is a literal rewiring of overall neural connections as a result of pornography viewing. The extent of influence on other parts of the brain and cognition is an area of research requiring attention.

While neuroscience paints a very disturbing picture for those affected by watching pornography, it’s not all bad news. Although the same system for cocaine addiction is targeted by it, the substance is not the same. A cocaine addict must go through a regimented program to detoxify his system or otherwise he’ll be placing his life at risk. On the other hand, many men that have learned about the real stark effects of watching pornography are able to quit immediately without experiencing negative physiological consequences. It does take a lot of willpower and requires the person to busy themselves with other activities. Initially, tormenting replays of pornographic scenes watched over the past months or years will test the person’s drive and strength to give it up. Luckily, the same brain that went through a rewiring due to viewing pornography can also be rewired again. It is an extremely efficient organ that gets rid of unused connections. The longer a person can go without restimulating his pornographic connections, the more likely he makes it for his brain to discard them. Engaging in new experiences and occupying the brain with other PG-rated matters will be bound to force it to prune others away. It just needs time to do its work and it needs to be given the choice; it will always choose what the person activates more often.

- By Mohamed Ghilan, UVic Neuroscience


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Wednesday, December 7, 2011

99 Names of Allah (s.w.t) 'Asma ul Husna'














[Surah Taha Ch: 20 V: 8]

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"Allah! there is no god but He! To Him belongs the Most Beautiful Names." 

1. Ar-Rahman
  • The One who has plenty of mercy for the believers and the blasphemers in this world and especially for the believers in the hereafter.
  • The Most Merciful

2. Ar-Rahim
  • The One who has plenty of mercy for the believers.
  • The most Compassionate

3. Al-Malik
  • The One with the complete Dominion, the One Whose Dominion is clear from imperfection.
  • The King, the Monarch

4. Al-Quddus
  • The One who is pure from any imperfection and clear from children and adversaries.
  • The Holy one

5. As-Salam
  • The One who is free from every imperfection.
  • The Peace, The Tranquility

6. Al-Mu'min
  • The One who witnessed for Himself that no one is God but Him. And He witnessed for His believers that they are truthful in their belief that no one is God but Him.
  • The One with Faith
  • The Faithful, The Trusted

7. Al-Muhaymin
  • The One who witnesses the saying and deeds of His creatures.
  • The Protector
  • The vigilant, the controller

8. Al-'Aziz
  • The Defeater who is not defeated.
  • The Mighty
  • The Almighty, the powerful

9. Al-Jabbar
  • The One that nothing happens in His Dominion except that which He willed.
  • The all Compelling

10. Al-Mutakabbir
  • The One who is clear from the attributes of the creatures and from resembling them.
  • The Haughty, the Majestic
  • The Imperious

11. Al-Khaliq
  • The One who brings everything from non-existence to existence.
  • The Creator, the Maker

12.Al-Bari'
  • The Creator who has the Power to turn the entities.
  • The Artificer, the Creator

13.Al-Musawwir
  • The One who forms His creatures in different pictures.
  • The Fashioner
  • The Organizer, the Designer

14.Al-Ghaffar
  • The One who forgives the sins of His slaves time and time again.
  • The Forgiving, the Forgiver

15.Al-Qahhar
  • The Subduer who has the perfect Power and is not unable over anything.
  • The Almighty, the Dominant

16.Al-Wahhab
  • The One who is Generous in giving plenty without any return.
  • The Donor, the Bestower

17. Ar-Razzaq
  • The Provider, the Sustainer

18. Al-Fattah
  • The One who opens for His slaves the closed worldly and religious matters.
  • The Opener, the Revealer

19. Al-'Alim
  • The Knowledgeable; The One nothing is absent from His knowledge.
  • The all Knowing, the Omniscient

20. Al-Qabid
  • The One who constricts the sustenance.
  • The Contractor, The Restrainer, the Recipient.

21. Al-Basit
  • The One who expands and widens.
  • The Expander, He who expands

22. Al-Khafid
  • The One who lowers whoever He willed by His Destruction.
  • The Abaser, the Humbler

23. Ar-Rafi'
  • The One who raises whoever He willed by His Endowment.
  • The Raiser, the Exalter

24. Al-Mu'iz
  • He gives esteem to whoever He willed, hence there is no one to degrade Him;
  • The Honorer, the Exalter

25. Al-Muzil
  • Degrades whoever he willed, hence there is no one to give him esteem.
  • The Abaser, the Degrader, the Subduer

26. As-Sami'
  • The One who Hears all things that are heard by His Eternal Hearing without an ear, instrument or organ.
  • The Hearer, The All hearing, all knowing.

27. Al-Basir
  • The One who Sees all things that are seen by His Eternal Seeing without a pupil or any other instrument.
  • The Seer, The discerning, the All seeing.

28. Al-Hakam
  • He is the Ruler and His judgment is His Word.
  • The arbitrator, the Judge

29. Al-'Adl
  • The One who is entitled to do what He does.
  • The justice, the equitable. The Just.

30. Al-Latif
  • The Most Gentle, the Gracious.
  • The One who is kind

31. Al-Khabir
  • The One who knows the truth of things.
  • The Aware. The Sagacious, one is who is aware.

32. Al-Halim
  • The One who delays the punishment for those who deserve it and then He might forgive them.
  • The Gentle. The most patient, the Clement.

33. Al-'Azim
  • The One deserving the attributes of Exaltment, Glory, Extolment, and Purity from all imperfection.
  • The Great, Mighty

34. Al-Ghafoor
  • The One who forgives a lot.
  • The Forgiving, the Pardoner.

35. Ash-Shakur
  • The One who gives a lot of reward for a little obedience.
  • The Grateful, the Thankful

36. Al-'Ali
  • The One who is clear from the attributes of the creatures.
  • The most high, the exalted.

37. Al-Kabir
  • The One who is greater than everything in status.
  • The great, the big.

38. Al-Hafiz
  • The One who protects whatever and whoever He willed to protect.
  • The Guardian, the preserver.

39. Al-Muqit
  • The One who has the Power.
  • The maintainer, The Nourisher

40. Al-Hasib
  • The One who gives the satisfaction.
  • The noble, The Reckoner

41. Aj-Jalil
  • The One who is attributed with greatness of Power and Glory of status.
  • The Majestic. The honorable, the exalted.

42. Al-Karim
  • The One who is clear from abjectness.
  • The most generous, the Bountiful.

43. Ar-Raqib
  • The One that nothing is absent from Him. Hence it's meaning is related to the attribute of Knowledge.
  • The Guardian, the watchful. Watcher.

44. Al-Mujib
  • The One who answers the one in need if he asks Him and rescues the yearner if he calls upon Him.
  • The Responder. The respondent, one who answers.

45. Al-Wasi'
  • The Englober. The enricher, the Omnipresent, the Knowledgeable.

46. Al-Hakim
  • The One who is correct in His doings.
  • The most Wise, the Judicious.

47. Al-Wadud
  • The Affectionate, the Loving.

48. Al-Majid
  • The One who is with perfect Power, High Status, Compassion, Generosity and Kindness.
  • The Glorious, the exalted.

49. Al-Ba'ith
  • The One who resurrects for reward and/or punishment.
  • The Resurrector, the Raiser from death.

50. Ash-Shahid
  • The One who nothing is absent from Him.
  • The Witness

51. Al-Haqq
  • The One who truly exists.
  • The Truth, the Just.

52. Al-Wakil
  • The One who gives the satisfaction and is relied upon.
  • The Guardian, the Trustee

53. Al-Qawee
  • The One with the complete Power.
  • The powerful, the Almighty, The Strong

54. Al-Matin
  • The One with extreme Power which is un-interrupted and He does not get tired.
  • The Strong, the Firm

55. Al-Walee
  • The Supporter, the Friend, the Defender the master.

56. Al-Hamid
  • The praised One who deserves to be praised.
  • The Praiseworthy , the Commendable

57. Al-Muhsi
  • The One who the count of things are known to him.
  • The Counter

58. Al-Mubdi'
  • The One who started the human being. That is, He created him.
  • The Beginner, the Creator, The Originator

59. Al-Mu'eed
  • The One who brings back the creatures after death.
  • The Restorer, the Resurrector.

60. Al-Muhyee
  • The One who took out a living human from semen that does not have a soul. He gives life by giving the souls back to the worn out bodies on the resurrection day and He makes the hearts alive by the light of knowledge.
  • The Bestower, the Life Giver.

61. Al-Mumeet
  • The One who renders the living dead.
  • The Bringer of Death. The Death Giver.

62. Al-Hayy
  • The One attributed with a life that is unlike our life and is not that of a combination of soul, flesh or blood.
  • The Living. The Alive, the ever living.

63. Al-Qayyum
  • The One who remains and does not end.
  • The Self-Subsistent, The Eternal, the Self Sustaining.

64. Al-Wajid
  • The Rich who is never poor. Al-Wajd is Richness.
  • The all perceiving, the Opulent, the Finder.

65. Al-Wahid
  • The One without a partner.
  • The One, the Unique.

66. Al-Majid
  • The One who is Majid.
  • The Noble, the illustrious.

67. Al-Ahad
  • The only, the Unique.

68. As-Samad
  • The Master who is relied upon in matters and reverted to in ones needs.
  • The Perfect, the Eternal.

69. Al-Qadir
  • The One attributed with Power.
  • The Able, the Capable, the Omnipotent.

70. Al-Muqtadir
  • The One with the perfect Power that nothing is withheld from Him.
  • The Capable, The all Powerful

71. Al-Muqaddim
  • He makes ahead what He wills.
  • The Presenter, The Advancer, The Expediter

72. Al-Mu'akhkhir
  • The One who delays what He wills.
  • The Fulfiller, the keeper behind, The Deferrer

73. Al-'Awwal
  • The One whose Existence is without a beginning.
  • The First

74. Al-'Akhir
  • The One whose Existence is without an end.
  • The Last

75. Az-Zahir
  • The Apparent, the Exterior, The Manifest
  • The One that nothing is above Him and nothing is underneath Him, hence He exists without a place.

76. Al-Batin
  • The Hidden, the Interior, the Latent

77. Al-Wali
  • The One who owns things and manages them.
  • The Governor, The Ruler, The Master

78. Al-Muta'ali
  • The One who is clear from the attributes of the creation.
  • The Exalted, The most high, one above reproach.

79. Al-Barr
  • The One who is kind to His creatures, who covered them with His sustenance and specified whoever He willed among them by His support, protection, and special mercy.
  • The Benefactor, The Beneficent, the Pious.

80. At-Tawwab
  • The One who grants repentance to whoever He willed among His creatures and accepts his repentance.
  • The Acceptor of Repentance, The Forgiver, the Relenting.

81. Al-Muntaqim
  • The One who victoriously prevails over His enemies and punishes them for their sins. It may mean the One who destroys them.
  • The Avenger

82. Al-'Afuww
  • The One with wide forgiveness.
  • The Forgiver, the effacer, the Pardoner

83. Ar-Ra'uf
  • The One with extreme Mercy. The Mercy of Allah is His will to endow upon whoever He willed among His creatures.
  • The merciful, the Ever Indulgent.

84. Al-Muqsit
  • The One who is Just in His judgment.
  • The Just, the Equitable

85. Aj-Jami'
  • The One who gathers the creatures on a day that there is no doubt about, that is the Day of Judgment.
  • The Collector, the comprehensive, Gatherer

86. Al-Ghanee
  • The One who does not need the creation.
  • The rich, the all sufficing, Self-Sufficient

87. Al-Mughnee
  • The One who satisfies the necessities of the creatures.
  • The Enricher, sufficer, the bestower.

88. Al-Mani'
  • The Supporter who protects and gives victory to His pious believers. Al-Mu'tiy
  • The Withholder
  • The Preventer, the prohibiter, the defender.

89. Ad-Darr
  • The One who makes harm reach to whoever He willed.
  • The Distresser , The afflictor, the bringer of Adversity.

90. An-Nafi'
  • The One who gives benefits to whoever He wills.
  • The Beneficial Benefactor

91. An-Nur
  • The One who guides.
  • The Light

92. Al-Hadi
  • The One whom with His Guidance His believers were guided, and with His Guidance the living beings have been guided to what is beneficial or them and protected from what is harmful to them.
  • The Guide

93. Al-Badi'
  • The One who created the creation and formed it without any preceding example.
  • The Wonderful, the maker, Incomparable

94. Al-Baqi
  • The One that the state of non-existence is impossible for Him.
  • The Enduring, the Everlasting, the eternal

95. Al-Warith
  • The One whose Existence remains.
  • The Inheritor, The Heir

96. Ar-Rashid
  • The One who guides.
  • The Rightly Guided, The Conscious, the Guide

97. As-Sabur
  • The One who does not quickly punish the sinners.
  • The most Patient, the Enduring.

98. Malik Al-Mulk
  • The One who controls the Dominion and gives dominion to whoever He willed.
  • The Ruler of the Kingdom, king of the Universe

99. Zul-l-Jalal wal-Ikram
  • The One who deserves to be Exalted and not denied.
  • Lord of Majesty and Generosity